"Please don't talk that loudly", that's what I always tell people in public or common places. I'm actually really curious to know why some people actually talk so loudly. Is this a natural habit like some traits which we develop from our childhood, can't say ? or there could be another possibility that they may be doing it intentionally.Just to catch the attention of the people. Who doesn't like fame, though in this case it is just for a few seconds :P
Interestingly, it is wrong to talk loudly whichever above reason you have for justification. It's wrong even if you use either of the above two reasons because if you naturally do it then it means you don't pay attention to people around you and you are really ignorant.If you do it intentionally then you have psychological problem and should seek attention because you may be suffering from some disorder which makes you seek attention or may be you have a problem with your confidence level.
To sum it up you shouldn't actually speak loudly in the public space. It will definitely make some people to maintain a distance from you. :)
#JanhitMeinJaari
Interestingly, it is wrong to talk loudly whichever above reason you have for justification. It's wrong even if you use either of the above two reasons because if you naturally do it then it means you don't pay attention to people around you and you are really ignorant.If you do it intentionally then you have psychological problem and should seek attention because you may be suffering from some disorder which makes you seek attention or may be you have a problem with your confidence level.
To sum it up you shouldn't actually speak loudly in the public space. It will definitely make some people to maintain a distance from you. :)
#JanhitMeinJaari
I agree!! :D
ReplyDeleteBlog about some peoplez habit of shouting over the phone or shuffling the mobile from mouth to ear (if you've seen it) :-P
ReplyDeleteYes, have seen that. :P I've noted this down, will be writing about it soon. :-)
DeleteI agree that people tend to like soft spoken people, in general. A sweet mellowed voice is automatically attractive and lovable.
ReplyDeleteSo true, that's the point I wanted to bring out. :-)
DeleteI am a little guilty of being a loud person in general. Not really the offensive or irritating kinds but definitely do not possess a sweet melodious kinda voice.
ReplyDeleteThe warning you have given in the end is making me worry about my relations with people around. I guess its time to mellow down :p